Relationships lesson two?

Relationships oh relationship.
How surprising how a person can change once he/she gets into a relationship.
I don't know how to put this, so this might be quite blunt here.

I'll say most people will choose to go out with their boyfriend/girlfriend instead of their friends if they had a choice to make,
I guess it'll be the same for me as well.
Honestly, I think being in a relationship is fine, as long as your studies is still manageable,
& it wouldn't affect you.
But if you're single, no fret, whats so bad about being single, I'm sure those who are attached wished they were single.
But if you're single, please don't be such a desperate asshole and try too hard to find your other half.
To add on, if you think you have the calibre to go attract girls, please go ahead.
But please don't lie to yourself that you have it and brag about it.
Yes I'm finger pointing.

Now back to topic,
Even if you're in a relationship, I still believe that friends still deserve our time,
And not your entire time to just your boyfriend/girlfriend
If thats the case, even your 5 years or so best friends and your usual clique will be gone before you know it,
Just because of a lasting 3 months relationship.
I just feel that we all should learn to manage our time with our friends & boyfriend/girlfriend when we get into a relationship, someday
Maybe you're one of them, yes, you feel that your boyfriend/girlfriend is oh-so-worth more of your time,
And then you start to drift away from your cliques, not hanging out with them anymore,
Thinking to yourself, it's okay, it's okay.
But once that relationship shatters on that one fine day, even crawling back to your clique won't help.
No finger pointing this time.